Health Mantra » I AM A WEDDED WOMAN OF 34. I HAVE TWO SMALL KIDS AND ALSO WORK AS A TEACHER IN A GOVERNMENT SCHOOL. I WORK FROM FIVE IN THE DAWN TO 10 AT NIGHT DOING FAMILY WORK, SEEMING BEHIND THE KIDS AND AT MY PROFESSION. BY THE END OF THE DAY I UNDERGO WORN OUT AND LONELY AND WANT TO WEEP. I HAVE NO ONE I CAN CONVERSE TO BECAUSE MY HUSBAND IS KEPT VERY BUSY BY HIS JOB AND MY KIDS ARE VERY CHILDISH. I LONG TO POUR OUT MY FEELINGS TO SOMEBODY, BUT UNFORTUNATELY I HAVE NOBODY. I REPEATEDLY UNDERGO WITH NOTHING TO LIVE FOR. IS SOMETHING INCORRECT WITH ME? I HAVE NO REAL TROUBLES AND MANY WOULD THINK ME FORTUNATE. BUT I STILL WANT TO PASS AWAY. GRATIFY AID ME.

I AM A WEDDED WOMAN OF 34. I HAVE TWO SMALL KIDS AND ALSO WORK AS A TEACHER IN A GOVERNMENT SCHOOL. I WORK FROM FIVE IN THE DAWN TO 10 AT NIGHT DOING FAMILY WORK, SEEMING BEHIND THE KIDS AND AT MY PROFESSION. BY THE END OF THE DAY I UNDERGO WORN OUT AND LONELY AND WANT TO WEEP. I HAVE NO ONE I CAN CONVERSE TO BECAUSE MY HUSBAND IS KEPT VERY BUSY BY HIS JOB AND MY KIDS ARE VERY CHILDISH. I LONG TO POUR OUT MY FEELINGS TO SOMEBODY, BUT UNFORTUNATELY I HAVE NOBODY. I REPEATEDLY UNDERGO WITH NOTHING TO LIVE FOR. IS SOMETHING INCORRECT WITH ME? I HAVE NO REAL TROUBLES AND MANY WOULD THINK ME FORTUNATE. BUT I STILL WANT TO PASS AWAY. GRATIFY AID ME.

May 25th, 2011

You are feeling forlorn and miserable since you are over-worked and have no one to speak to. If possible, it should be your husband who understands your feelings and is helpful. Attempt and tell him how much you require to speak to and disclose in him. If he understands, he may make a few occasions for you. But if he is too busy or feels that any leisure time he has should be loyal to the kids, you cannot force him to be a friend and confidante.
But don’t be feeling shame of your wants. They are entirely lawful and other women are confident to know you. So get in contact with old friends and make time to meet them. Tell your husband that he has to look after the kids for a few times on holidays and go and have a talkfest with old friend. Or inquire them to come home. If you cannot meet old friends, talk to siblings, relative and colleagues but don’t confide your troubles regarding your husband in them in excess of. Read, watch TV and keep up with your pastime, even if you can’t dedicate much time to any of these actions. Try and keep optimistic in your thoughts. Your kids will mature and need your attention less soon sufficient.